"Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing." 1 Peter 3:9
Just when I had a great plan for repaying evil for evil, I hear this from Nancy Leigh DeMoss on her radio program "Revive Our Hearts". OUCH! Here's some of the text that followed the verse.
"What's that word, "bless"? Eulogize, speak well of. Now, who's Peter talking about here? Who are you blessing? You are blessing the person who's given you evil. You're blessing the person who's reviling you.
God is saying when you are cursed, make sure you don't curse him back, and then ask God for grace to do what Peter say --bless. Look at the end of this, verse 9: "For to this you were called that you may obtain a blessing."
You reap what you sow, You sow blessings into the lives of your family members and friends, and you're going to reap blessings. You sow cursing, and you're going to reap cursing.
"So as you sow blessings into your family, " Peter says, "you're going to fulfill your calling. God wants to bless you" and He will; He can, and you'll put yourself in a position where God can and will bless you if you return blessing to those who revile and curse against you.
I guess it wasn't such a great plan after all.